Dealing with Boarding School Anxiety: A Parent’s Guide

As a new school term begins, the decision to send a child to boarding school sparks mixed feelings for both parents and students.

Many find themselves dealing with uncertainty and anxiety, which is a natural reaction to the idea of separation. However, it’s crucial to see this change as a positive journey for everyone involved.

In her heartfelt instagram post (http://eleanornabwiso),Ugandan actress and film producer,Eleanor Nabwiso, expressed her genuine anxiety about sending her son back to school,

“I know moms are bragging and are excited about their little ones going to boarding school. But am so sad about mine going away 😭😭😭 I know it’s for the best but I don’t know how time flew this fast 😪 like I won’t be there in the morning to hug him, chat about staff, play funny games in the day, hear him call me non stop (this get to my head but I like it 😂) I knew this time would come but it has hit me so hard”

Ms. Nabwiso’s candid confession touches on the universal experience of parents witnessing their children grow up and move on to the next phase of their lives.

Understanding the Path to Independence

During adolescence, young people go through significant changes in how they think, feel, and interact.

It’s a time when teenagers want to become more independent, figuring out who they are and making their own choices. This desire for independence is a normal part of growing up.

Recognizing and accepting that your child is on a journey toward independence can help ease worries and create a supportive environment for the move to boarding school.

Drawing from Personal Experience

Think back to your own teenage years. Everyone goes through moments of excitement, self-discovery, and separation from parents.

Understanding the positive aspects of your own journey toward independence can help ease concerns about sending your child to boarding school.

Building Trust and Communication

Talking openly with your teenager is really important during this time of change. Discuss their feelings, worries, and what they expect from boarding school.

This kind of conversation builds trust and understanding, making your connection stronger even if you’re not physically together.

Having a strong support system, both within the family and through the school’s resources, makes the transition smoother.

Boarding schools provide a structured environment that helps with academic, social, and emotional development, making it easier to adjust to being more independent.

Embracing Change for Personal Growth

Change is a normal part of life, and sending a child to boarding school is a big change for everyone. Instead of resisting this change, see it as a chance for everyone to grow.

Think about how this experience can make your child’s life better and help them grow as a person.

The lessons they learn, the friendships they make, and the skills they gain in a boarding school can positively shape who they are.

While it’s okay to feel anxious about this decision, it’s important to understand that teenagers seeking independence is normal.

Reflect on your own experiences, have open conversations, and see this move as a positive step for everyone involved.

Navigating this challenging period becomes an empowering journey filled with understanding and optimism.

[Continue reading about empowering parenting in our previous story here https://theprism.co.ug/considerations-in-deciding-on-which-school-to-take-your-child/ .]